SERVICE DETAILS
You might find yourself here and wonder why you’d need the support, because it’s your loved one with the addiction. I know that once upon a time, that was my thought. Until I began to realise how much my life had changed because of that addiction.
Life had become about getting my loved one support. It felt like a fight that I wanted to win but my loved one didn’t seem to want to fight at all. It was frustrating because even with an understanding of addiction, you’re watching someone destroy their life but they don’t seem to mind.
If their number appearing on your phone makes your heart sink, if it feels like you’re walking on egg shells because you don’t want to trigger their behaviour, if it feels like an argument is started over things that don’t matter, if you feel like you’re being manipulated into lending money, if you try to talk to them but you get blamed, if you find yourself lying to friends, family and work, if you’re feeling resentful, if you feel a sense of loss because you miss who they were before this….If you feel any of that, then you need support. Your loved one might not be ready for it, but your recovery can start whenever you start to feel that you can’t keep doing this.
They’re our loved one for a reason, and we understand that. Addiction is an illness that is awful for our loved ones to experience and we hope for recovery for them. The reality is that addiction can destroy families – you can’t make your loved one get help, but YOU can get support whenever you need it.
Support Group...
We are currently meeting (during term time), at Tynecastle Community Wing, Tynecastle High School, McLeod Street, Edinburgh – just opposite Tynecastle Stadium.
The group runs on a Wednesday, 12:00pm - 1:30pm.
We have a great room with lots of space, comfy seats and plenty of toys to occupy little ones, so please don’t let a lack of childcare put you off. You are very welcome to bring them along.
Outwith term time, we run a group online and in the summer months, we try to have an informal catch up in person, as we appreciate that online isn’t always easily accessed.
We also have a Facebook Closed Group which you’re welcome to join if you find yourself needing to vent or are looking to see what others have done in similar circumstances. The closed group is private and DOES NOT show on your general newsfeed. It is only visible to those who are in the group.
We also have a WhatsApp group which is open to anyone who’s attended groups. This is just a way of supporting each other between sessions.
Our facilitators are also trained as CRAFT practitioners. CRAFT is a program that is purposefully designed for the family of those battling addiction and looks at boundaries, self care, communication skills etc.
We value the ability to sign post people to services available in Edinburgh and will happily help you to look at services available for your loved one, but we are there to support you first and foremost regardless of your loved ones battle and whether they engage in recovery or not.
